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“All women look for one thing in a man above all others—Confidence. Not pride or arrogance—just confidence.” A woman’s life and that of her children have throughout history depended on a man’s skill, so women have always looked for men who exude confidence like women exude perfume. Don Juan in the 21st Century: The only way to gain confidence is to face one’s fears. Try the things that scare you. As Don Juan says to his coachman, who is terrified of women, “Fear is a thief. It will steal your life.” A calm self-assurance goes a long way.