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Seduction and passion are simply Life longing for Life. It has so little to do with our fears and faults. When we discover this Divine Secret, we realize that we are far less than we ever feared and far more than we ever imagined. The greatest misstep in the dance of courtship is to believe that it is our charm or beauty that is ultimately in question in this ancient fertility rite. Life uses us for its own satisfaction, and when we surrender to its will, we become a part of every kiss whether or not it is made with our lips and of every caress whether or not it is made with our fingertips. Don Juan in the 21st Century: What is it that holds you back from approaching a woman and revealing your heart? Is it the fear that she will reject you? When you realize that this dance of courtship is impersonal and does not judge the dancer than you can be bold, for you realize that you have nothing to lose. Her rejection is simply a statement of her need, not your inadequacy.